See No Bounds: Being in a wheelchair changes your life in ways very different to what is expected. You find out who the people around you are that is important the friends that you realise are true the loved ones you realise are important the people you meet and become instant close friends because you have a strong and common bond and you realise that deep down you are stronger than you think. However when you get hit with a low time it hits you harder than ever you feel useless you feel like you are a burden on those around you you feel like you want to blame someone or something you get angry sad guilty and you feel every emotion known to man and then you find those people around you who don't tell you to stop being stupid or selfish but they give you space they give you time and they just give you a chance and then you come out the other end some how some where and they are still there offering you a helping hand and for the past few weeks it's been me in that place and it's been those around me who I have needed to get me out of it and they know who they are and I hope they know just how greatfull I am for their help support and guidance..... And then just as you get out of your rut and you are winning your way back to the top someone one will come along and deliver a one off act of random kindness that will boost your mood into orbit you realise life is not shit it sucks at times it's hard to deal with but you are lucky and you are privileged this person knows who they are as well and again I wish I could put it into words how much their generosity means to me and what a life changer it will be. I am lucky I am privileged I am a winner. And to anyone who is currently in this rut chin up guys you are not useless you are not a burden those around you there because they want to be and because they understand and love you all you need to do is love them back............